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Communicating With Teenagers Must Be Coherent And Eloquent

Written by Jonathan Lahia

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Communicating with your teenager might be frustrating. You might not know the best way to go about it or what strategies to try. It`s important to remember that different things work for different families, so it is best to try different methods to see which one works for our good governance. It has to be coherent and articulated. Teenagers can sometimes be tricky and cunning. They are caught somewhere between being a kid and wanting to be an adult. However, with this age, it can also bring behavioral attitude problem like defiantness, poor listening skills, impulsive behavior and decision making. Some teenagers run wild at this age; they may act out, not listen and seem to have no remorse or concern for their actions. When teenagers are just doing minimal acting out, it is always advisable to have an open relationship with them not hostile. That means you ensure authorities that there is time to talk with them and that you have an open door policy. Find a cozy moment in a period of time during the day to bring up a conversation with your teenager – For example; making breakfast, or during dinner, find time to talk to your teenager, on game time and etc Teenagers may not tell you anything important, but just knowing that you are there to listen to him/her greatly, and that is the first step to communicating. Over and over again, the way adults approach teenagers can affect on how the conversation is going to turn out. For example, if a parent is upset about something and storms into their teen`s room and starts accusing them of something, they may get defensive and mad. That is because teenagers sometimes feel that the whole world is against them and that nobody understands their concerns. To make your teenager not feel like they are up against to the wall, you as a parent or an authority should find an alternate way to talk to them. This could include giving your teenager some respect; you could knock on their door, and give them the benefit of the doubt. That means to say you`re going to go into the conversation with an open mind. When your teenager can see that you`re not accusing anyone and that you`re just talking to them, they might open up and tell the truth. Again, you need no room to be hostile, resentment and unfriendliness situation.

 

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If teenagers are doing some serious acting out and they are out of control like the most recent fracas at Kabala, many a times, there is not much that you can really do. You are not happy with the choices they are making, but the best thing to do is stand back and let your teenager learn from their mistakes – not shoot them dead. Often times, parents will complain that their teenagers are doing things that they don`t like and in response to it, they yell, scream, argue and take things away out of proportion. In other words, the only problem with giving out harsh punishment to a teenager, who is acting out to the extreme, is that they will likely going to rebel further and the relationship between parent and child might become damaged. Often it is best to stop accusing, blaming and giving out punishment to teenagers. Keeping an open relationship with your teenager is the ultimate way to stay connected while you both go through the stage in his/her life. Moreover, try to remember that all teenagers go through that troubling teenaged time period. And while some teenagers may act out more than others, the important thing to remember is that the period of time is only short and temporary. That is true to say, your teenage daughter will eventually become a wonderful human being again! If you can get through the short time period while keeping a good relationship going, then you will most likely not regret it in the future.
Kabala Youth Violent Behavior – Jesus Christ Say: “Calm Down and Enjoy Peace in My Presence”

Written by Jonathan Lahia

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The Kabala Youth in the Northern Province must now find true peace and fulfillment in their lives or prayers and listening to the Lord – Jesus Christ which always takes time and commitment to atone, but it can all be done. In other words, His Excellency the President Dr. Ernest Bai Koroma has being known for and lived for his life in the presence of the divine. He knows what it is like to devote himself by hearing the call of Jesus and has realized the peace it should bring. People and the youths from the North – Kabala, have to stay focused on President Ernest Bai Koroma’s agenda of prosperity which leads his propensity in having a government of Good Governance for Peace, Democracy, Rule of Law and Accountability. His daily interaction with the Lord after a time believes that there was more to it. President Koroma believes only if he was to truly fulfill the promise of the Peace and Growth he found in the Lord’s presence, then he would have to spread the word to everyone for peace and tranquility.
With the concept of “Enjoying Peace in Kabala with Lord’s Presence” H. E. President Koroma also believes that, the presence of the Lord Jesus Christ, he would be able to share love to his fellow Sierra Leoneans for the Lord and the Peace he has found with many, many others who are blessed and who wish to share the blessings he feels.
It has not been an easy way of hearing youth violence. Moreover, all the political pundits are not in compliance about this situation in Kabala. At first, authorities felt stilted but few the devoted political pundits had kept focused at it. The Peoples President – Dr. Ernest Bai Koroma began to feel more and more adored as if the Lord was with him. He ordered the law enforcement agencies to adhere “Rule of Law” in order for Peace and Tranquility to prevail. His also advised youth to shows political tolerant and to show the joy and love he felt from the Lords presence and the Peace he has been able to find has been worth the effort he has made. President Koroma doesn’t equate his findings with those found in Scripture and in the Bible. Instead, he has been able to show others the beauty and love he had found in his life through his preaching. And, others have taken up his preaching and his belief that is, after all, the highest form is the love of one person which can bring peace to one another. If a person can help another one grows Love of the Lord, then that person is truly blessed. No one can say that His Excellency Dr. Ernest Bai Koroma isn’t truly blessed because he has not only given of himself, but he has brought the Love and Peace of the Lord to many to those who may not have found it and they have passed it on to others. Stories about of people who found their ways to the Lord and Peace after reading President Koroma’s work, his religious tolerant and the socio-economic development he had expounded in this country, had made him who is he today. It’s not a hard life to live either; it’s just one where you are devoted to the Lord. Once you have found that anchor in your life, the rest of life seems to cruise by easily as you have knowledge that all will be all right in the end. With so many youths violent, disturbances and troubled souls in the world, everyone who is being touched by and spreads the words this people’s president has placed on a notice which will soon make this world a better place. Imagine a world without strife and with a supreme belief in the Peace of the Lord is will never be achieved. It’s the type of world we all should strive for.

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